All your life you live so close to truth it becomes a permanent blur in the corner of your eye. And when something nudges it into outline,
it's like being ambushed by a grotesque.
My fav thing about tumblr is the complete lack of country music it makes me feel like this is where I should be
remember that time when I messaged all the tumblr lesbians lines from Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead?
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|1:||What is your name and does it mean anything?|
|2:||How long have you known your best friend?|
|3:||What position do you normally sleep in?|
|4:||Were you a part of any “clique” in high school?|
|5:||Who was your favorite teacher in high school and why?|
|6:||Do you wish to travel a lot?|
|7:||Did you participate in any sports while in school?|
|8:||Show a sample of your handwriting:|
|9:||Have you ever given blood?|
|10:||Do you like the way that you grew up?|
|11:||Do you like your siblings? Why or why not?|
|12:||How did you meet your best friend and why did you become friends?|
|13:||Name one movie that made you cry.|
|14:||Do you prefer to read poetry, write poetry, or neither?|
|15:||Things about someone that you find attractive?|
|16:||What song are you currently listening to?|
|17:||Have you ever broken a bone? If so, how?|
|18:||A random memory from you childhood:|
|19:||Where did you grow up?|
|20:||What was the last thing you watched on tv?|
|21:||Do you think you’d make a good parent?|
|22:||Would you like to meet any of your Tumblr friends in person?|
|22:||What was the last dream you remember having?|
|23:||When is your birthday?|
|24:||How many pillows do you sleep with?|
|25:||Do you wear glasses? If so, how long have you been wearing glasses?|
|26:||What color is your hair?|
|27:||Name 5 facts about your appearance:|
|28:||What is your favorite soda?|
|29:||What is a strange talent that you have?|
|30:||How’s the weather right now?|
|31:||Why did one of your friendships end?|
|32:||Who do you miss right now?|
|33:||Why did your last relationship end?|
|34:||Are you still figuring out who you are?|
|35:||Have you ever been admitted to a hospital? Why?|
|36:||What is your favorite restaurant?|
|37:||What is word that you always seem to spell wrong?|
|38:||Would ever adopt kids?|
|39:||What is your favorite kind of pizza?|
|40:||What was your first thought when you woke up this morning?|
|41:||When was the last time you got really really happy and why?|
|42:||What’s the strangest thing you’ve ever eaten?|
|43:||How do you start a conversation?|
|44:||What’s a band you’ve been obsessed with lately?|
|45:||Do you come from a family “of money?”|
|46:||Do you have a bucket list?|
|47:||What is your favorite series of books?|
|48:||When was the last time you laughed so hard your stomach hurt?|
|49:||Where do you go when you’re sad?|
|50:||5 random facts about yourself:|
I hope Miss Claudette is okay.
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Abusive Expectations - Makes impossible demands, requires constant attention, and constantly criticizes.
Aggressing - Name calling, accusing, blames, threatens or gives orders, and often disguised as a judgmental “I know best” or “helping” attitude.
Constant Chaos - Deliberately starts arguments with you or others. May treat you well in front of others, but changes when you’re alone.
Rejecting - Refusing to acknowledge a person’s value, worth or presence. Communicating that he or she is useless or inferior or devaluing his or her thoughts and feelings.
Denying - Denies personal needs (especially when need is greatest) with the intent of causing hurt or as punishment. Uses silent treatment as punishment. Denies certain events happened or things that were said. Denies your perceptions, memory and sanity by disallowing any viewpoints other than their own which causes self-doubt, confusion, and loss of self-esteem.
Degrading - Any behavior that diminishes the identity, worth or dignity of the person such as: name-calling, mocking, teasing, insulting, ridiculing,
Emotional Blackmail - Uses guilt, compassion, or fear to get what he or she wants.
Terrorizing - Inducing intense fear or terror in a person, by threats or coercion.
Invalidation - Attempts to distort your perception of the world by refusing to acknowledge your personal reality. Says that your emotions and perceptions aren’t real and shouldn’t be trusted.
Isolating - Reducing or restricting freedom and normal contact with others.
Corrupting - Convincing a person to accept and engage in illegal activities.
Exploiting - Using a person for advantage or profit.
Minimizing - A less extreme form of denial that trivializes something you’ve expressed as unimportant or inconsequential.
Unpredictable Responses - Gets angry and upset in a situation that would normally not warrant a response. You walk around on eggshells to avoid any unnecessary drama over innocent comments you make. Drastic mood swings and outbursts.
Gaslighting -A form of psychological abuse involving the manipulation of situations or events that cause a person to be confused or to doubt his perceptions and memories. Gaslighting causes victims to constantly second-guess themselves and wonder if they’re losing their minds.
important read for everyone
It means something when your response to this list is - “So… parenting.” Cause you’ve got someone (adult authority figure in your life) in mind.
Quite shocked by how many of these relate to my last relationship.